Thursday, 18 June 2015

Take a step forward

Life is unexpected. Full of surprises, though it’s uncertain whether those surprises bring joy or disappointment.
Greeting Readers!
It’s how frequent that we say “I don't know what I am doing. I don't even care about anything. My life is so damn messed up. Oh God! Why me. That's it I am done. I am frustrated. “I bet you all can relate to these lines, we use them quite often right? Is this how life is supposed to be? We are always cribbing over little things in life, crying why our life isn't perfect. Truth to be told no one has a perfect life.
Well I am not here to state about how perfection is deceptive and is eating our brains day by day but rather to make you see how unexpected life can be, all you've got to do is take chances.
I know life can be hard because it is hard. The tough times are supposed to be there to teach us to be strong enough to fight every obstacle, to withstand every misery, to teach us to keep ourselves guarded enough so that we don't get hurt by every word that other people utter about us. We should care what we think of ourselves what our loved ones think about us and that's all, there is nobody else that should matter us now.
People who talk behind your back are just people that should not matter to you in anyway. People who make you second guess about yourself are the people who should avoid. People who make you insecure are the people whom you should have never known in the first place.
But it does not mean that we avoid criticism, we hate people who criticize us it’s their perception, their way of seeing you. Not everyone can like you, not everyone can understand you and it’s necessary, you have to accept that fact. It’s okay to accept your mistakes, to take criticism boldly and when at times people criticize you for your work you’re proud of it maybe because they are just jealous of the fact that you’re able to do a job they can’t, that you have reached a level they can’t.
At times we loathe ourselves for the mistakes we make in past, crying because it got too late to make amends. If only we would have taken the chance when we had time but what stops us? Its fear, fear that we might even lose what we have now, we might lose the certainty that we have now than face the uncertainty that we will face after taking a chance. We don’t have to be afraid of the uncertain because life is unexpected and just ask yourself that what is there to lose if you take the chance? Life is sure unexpected so you never know what you’re missing. Don’t lose the greater good that’s yet to come. Take a step forward while you still have time as it’s never too late if you take chances.
One has to learn to appreciate one own flaws to be flawless. Believe in ourselves, don’t be bothered by criticism so much that we lose ourselves, take chances and face every situation fearlessly. Forget the past and let go of all the grudges. And the moment you be yourself you will realise that life has just begun.

Sagrika Behl



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